When you bring home a new puppy, we often expect a moment of instant, magical love. Social media paints a picture of instant love that isn't always real. Having had dogs all my life, my expectations were close to reality, yet I still didn't truly know what my new puppy Zoe’s temperament would be.
The truth is, love doesn't always happen overnight, or even within the first week of welcoming a new furry family member. In fact, once the initial euphoria evaporates, you may find yourself feeling frustrated, exhausted, and even guilty for having these feelings toward an innocent, cute pup.
But let’s be honest: sometimes they drive you nuts.
A new puppy misbehaves constantly because they are still learning how the world works. During the teething phase, your day is spent either following them around the house or suffering through your arms being chewed on by teeth that feel like those of a tiny shark. The word “No” doesn’t exist in a puppy’s vocabulary yet; to them, the best toys are your shoes, socks, hands, and feet—not to mention the furniture.
The point is, it is completely normal not to feel that deep bond right away. The connection between you and your dog happens over time. You will know when it arrives. It might be when your puppy develops a new routine, like cuddling with you every morning while you drink your coffee, or the way they are so genuinely happy to see you when you come home from the gym.
A bond between you and your dog should develop naturally. For now, accept the fact that you are their provider of food, shelter, and safety. This is all just the beginning of a long and beautiful journey together.
